How to Make your Decision

Opting for a colored wedding dress: what you need to know before making the right decision

Of course, you might run into disapproval from friends and family members when you choose a colored wedding dress over a traditional white gown. Many people have trouble overcoming the idea of tradition and will be surprised by your choice. However, you shouldn't feel obligated to succumb to this pressure. Remember that it's your wedding and that you should have the final say. Most importantly, you'll be the one wearing the dress. Choose a dress that reflects your personal style and that you'll be excited to wear.

If you find yourself facing immense pressure from a pushy mother-in-law or a stubborn bridesmaid, calmly explain your decision, but don't feel like you have to defend yourself. You can tell people that you're interested in having a modern wedding that really fits with the personalities of you and your fiance. The traditional wedding ideal might not be your style and could be incompatible with the way your relationship works. On a day that is celebrating a special union between you and your partner, it's important that the details reflect who you are.